Here are some friends with simlar question as we.And I have this question for many days,anyone help us?
Kitty said: Yes.Is having an affair wort it ?-I try seach this on internet but no results found.Maybe this is a stupid question.
Mike said: oh,no,you are wrong.I have found as below for this question(Is having an affair wort it ?),it will help you,my kids.
Answer:
Not sure what this has to do with food and entertaining....well, maybe the entertaining part! Your question is one that countless unhappy people have asked themselves for years. Each individual has to ask themselves whether or not their infidelity was "worth" it. By and large, the answer is no. Usually there are a lot of innocent people, including children, that get hurt. Losing your self-respect and knowing that you are responsible for hurting someone for a moment of physical pleasure can be painful and difficult to forgive. Ask yourself some questions about your current relationship:
1. How would I feel if my partner cheated on me?
2. Am I being physically or emotionally abused or both?
3. Where are the "gaps" in my relationship?
4. Have I attempted to salvage my relationship appropriately?
5. Have I told my partner that I am dissatisfied with what we
currently have?
6. Am I prepared to be divorced?
7. What would my pastor/priest/rabbi think about this endeavor?
8. Could I look my children in the eye and tell them that the reason Mommy and Daddy are no longer going to stay together is
because I cheated?
Get in touch with what's really going on here. Are you bored? Hurt? Fallen out of love? The opposite of love is indifference.
Are you being the best partner you could be???
Anyway, good luck in your decision making around this.
no
If you are considering having an affair then something in your relationship is missing. So yeah have the affair and screw up everything in your relationship instead of just whats missing
All depends on the circumstances... but in most cases... no it is not worth it. You not only hurt yourself in the future, you also hurt many of the people around you.
Never.
nope, it never is. You will get caught. Even if the person forgives you for it they will never let you forget and it will always come up over and over.
Don't do it!
if you are out of love with the person that you are with just leave. There is no point in prolonging it. If you are wanting an affair then you are no longer in love. All you are going to do is hurt so many people, so no its not worth it at all.
Why is this in the beer, wine & spirits section? Are you drunk?
NO! NEVER! No affair is worth the pain and suffering it brings to others and the destruction it brings to many lives and families. I was the victim of one (my wife's) and have experienced the misery first hand.
No - it makes you the liar and the cheat - it is not worth the damage to your marriage, your self respect nor to the spouse that is going to be betrayed and hurt and never, ever completly trust you again- no matter what you do to make up for it - you do damage that can never be repaired.
If you are lusting after someone, and that is normal, then do it in fanasty land only- get a sex toy, talk to your spouse and get frisky with him instead of thinking about the other guy. That don't work- go to counseling- with the hubby- sex therapy, couples therapy, but don't just blow the commitment cause your horny.
It depends on the other person, the other part of the affair.
Every affair is complicated.
They all hurt...but for some, like Richard Pryor
said, they have a hurt that I am willing to take.
If you get a wort while having an affair you will be sorry..I that worth it!lol
yeah i'd have to agree with what a few other people are saying, if youre obviously not happy with the person youre currently with so you may as well leave them. if youre in a marriage, its obviously going to be more difficult (especially if you have children together) but you dont want to be charged with adultery or anything or have to go through custody battles, so you may as well make a clean and respectable break. you should try to hurt as few people as possible but keep your happiness in mind as well.
hope all goes well.
no cause it will be a lie you must live the rest of your life cause telling your spouse only adds them to your misery,,,,,,
Not in the slightest - you have to walk around with guilt for the rest of your life - to many people get hurt even one is one to many.
No. I can't handle the woman I have - why would I want 2?
I agree with Mattman 100%.
Thats all a man needs, 2 women driving him nuts. 1 is enough
No. if you really love your mate you would never put them through hurt and pain. if you are having problems and feel you need to then you should dump you mate. No one deserves to be put through that kind of torment.
it will be the worst mistake of your life. a wise word: what begins in deceit will end in deceit.
Think about this, the person you have an affair with will step out on you. If he/she does not care if you are faithful with your cuurent lover, then they don't care about being faithful themselves.
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Kitty said: Yes.Is having an affair wort it ?-I try seach this on internet but no results found.Maybe this is a stupid question.
Mike said: oh,no,you are wrong.I have found as below for this question(Is having an affair wort it ?),it will help you,my kids.
Answer:
Not sure what this has to do with food and entertaining....well, maybe the entertaining part! Your question is one that countless unhappy people have asked themselves for years. Each individual has to ask themselves whether or not their infidelity was "worth" it. By and large, the answer is no. Usually there are a lot of innocent people, including children, that get hurt. Losing your self-respect and knowing that you are responsible for hurting someone for a moment of physical pleasure can be painful and difficult to forgive. Ask yourself some questions about your current relationship:
1. How would I feel if my partner cheated on me?
2. Am I being physically or emotionally abused or both?
3. Where are the "gaps" in my relationship?
4. Have I attempted to salvage my relationship appropriately?
5. Have I told my partner that I am dissatisfied with what we
currently have?
6. Am I prepared to be divorced?
7. What would my pastor/priest/rabbi think about this endeavor?
8. Could I look my children in the eye and tell them that the reason Mommy and Daddy are no longer going to stay together is
because I cheated?
Get in touch with what's really going on here. Are you bored? Hurt? Fallen out of love? The opposite of love is indifference.
Are you being the best partner you could be???
Anyway, good luck in your decision making around this.
no
If you are considering having an affair then something in your relationship is missing. So yeah have the affair and screw up everything in your relationship instead of just whats missing
All depends on the circumstances... but in most cases... no it is not worth it. You not only hurt yourself in the future, you also hurt many of the people around you.
Never.
nope, it never is. You will get caught. Even if the person forgives you for it they will never let you forget and it will always come up over and over.
Don't do it!
if you are out of love with the person that you are with just leave. There is no point in prolonging it. If you are wanting an affair then you are no longer in love. All you are going to do is hurt so many people, so no its not worth it at all.
Why is this in the beer, wine & spirits section? Are you drunk?
NO! NEVER! No affair is worth the pain and suffering it brings to others and the destruction it brings to many lives and families. I was the victim of one (my wife's) and have experienced the misery first hand.
No - it makes you the liar and the cheat - it is not worth the damage to your marriage, your self respect nor to the spouse that is going to be betrayed and hurt and never, ever completly trust you again- no matter what you do to make up for it - you do damage that can never be repaired.
If you are lusting after someone, and that is normal, then do it in fanasty land only- get a sex toy, talk to your spouse and get frisky with him instead of thinking about the other guy. That don't work- go to counseling- with the hubby- sex therapy, couples therapy, but don't just blow the commitment cause your horny.
It depends on the other person, the other part of the affair.
Every affair is complicated.
They all hurt...but for some, like Richard Pryor
said, they have a hurt that I am willing to take.
If you get a wort while having an affair you will be sorry..I that worth it!lol
yeah i'd have to agree with what a few other people are saying, if youre obviously not happy with the person youre currently with so you may as well leave them. if youre in a marriage, its obviously going to be more difficult (especially if you have children together) but you dont want to be charged with adultery or anything or have to go through custody battles, so you may as well make a clean and respectable break. you should try to hurt as few people as possible but keep your happiness in mind as well.
hope all goes well.
no cause it will be a lie you must live the rest of your life cause telling your spouse only adds them to your misery,,,,,,
Not in the slightest - you have to walk around with guilt for the rest of your life - to many people get hurt even one is one to many.
No. I can't handle the woman I have - why would I want 2?
I agree with Mattman 100%.
Thats all a man needs, 2 women driving him nuts. 1 is enough
No. if you really love your mate you would never put them through hurt and pain. if you are having problems and feel you need to then you should dump you mate. No one deserves to be put through that kind of torment.
it will be the worst mistake of your life. a wise word: what begins in deceit will end in deceit.
Think about this, the person you have an affair with will step out on you. If he/she does not care if you are faithful with your cuurent lover, then they don't care about being faithful themselves.
Cooking Resources from yahoo answers cooking and drinking question and answer channel: Its well good! On a scale of 1 - 10 (ten being toastastic!) how would you rate these... 1 - Toast & marmalade 2 - toast with peanut butter & toasco suace 3 - toast with jam
Most of the time I find canned fruit to be nicer tasting and easier to eat as it is already cut/peeled. However I think sometimes its put insyrup making it taste better. However aside from the syrup is the actual fruit as healthy as say eating the equi...
We live in Cincinnati and are having friends from Mississippi over for Thanksgiving. I plan on making the basics (turkey, celery/sage stuffing mashed potato's, sweet potato casserole, corn, peas and carrots, corn pudding, pecan and pumpkin pie) will th...
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