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Here are some friends with simlar question as we.And I have this question for many days,anyone help us?
Kitty said: Yes.Should the women pay for your meal, her meal, both, or not at all?-I try seach this on internet but no results found.Maybe this is a stupid question.
Mike said: oh,no,you are wrong.I have found as below for this question(Should the women pay for your meal, her meal, both, or not at all?),it will help you,my kids.



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I'd say that you should pay for her. If she offers to help say maybe next time and thank her. Its always nice to be generous if you want to get someone's attention. If she turns out to take advantage make sure you are awake and don't let it happen. Its always nice for someone give as well as receive.

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depends on who asked who out to eat. I always pay if it's my idea to go out.. if he asks me.. he pays.

you should pay for the meal, not her if it's a first date, not at all..then after that, offer to pay for both and let her decide weather to help pay or not.

It depends on who asked who out! If it were a mutual decision, go dutch, but if the guy doesn't want her to pay, he should pay for both.

Afterwards: The woman splits with the guy.
Real Commitment: Both of them should fight for the bill.

It depends on both of you..who will take in charge. It's both decision make.. no men you should pay

I think a woman should pay half of the time.. or at least offer half the time.. The problem is that when you pay too much, they start expecting it.. and take it for granted..

Depends on who asked who out. Although I would say regardless of who initiated the date, each person should at least attempt to pay for their own meal just to be polite. IT DEPENDS ON THE RELATIONSHIP YOU GUYS HAVE IT'S REALLY OKAY NOW THESE DAYS IT'S A 50/50 KINDA THING. BE OPEN MINDED, I HAVE A MANY TIMES PAIDED FOR MY BOYFRIENDS LUNCH AND DINNER AS HE HAD PAIDED FOR MIND..

not at all

It's more romantic for the gentleman to pay for his dates meal. If she is embarrassed by this, you should just pay for your own meal. You should never make a girl (who you like) pay for both meals. depends on who u r going with

I'd say it can also depend on your incomes at the time. If one of you is really flush then it follows that they pay. I've paid and been paid for 50/50 I guess. But if someone invited me to a specific place that was pricey I think i'd suggest going halves anyway.

In the UAE men always pay for women meal if they are sitting with them even if the man does not dating the woman.
I think they bilieve that's is very gentle.

I think if it's a first date, and the guy doesn't at least offer to pay...there prolly won't be a second date cuz she'll think he's cheap and chivalry is dead.
Peraonlly, when I was dating (married now) I liked the guy to at least OFFER to pay - especially on a first date...but I VERY rarely let a guy pay for my dinner.
When my hubby & I first moved in together (~2 yrs pre-marriage) we sorta took turns buying dinners. I'm all for chivalry...but I'm realistic too and don't feel any one person needs to buy every dinner. In the beginning though...I think chivalry is a necessity if future dates are desired. It's just good manners to at least offer.
I also think that when the guy offers...he learns a lot about the woman by her reaction. If time after time she sits back and lets it happen...then she's greedy and he might not want to be with that woman.
Reaching for the check is an art...and there's generally a lot riding on a consistent outcome! lol

for 1st dates-- the guy should pay--
for repeated dates-- the girl should share with the bill
if the girl asked for a date--- SHE SHOULD PAY! who asked who?
if she asked, then she should pay. if you asked, then you pay. if you're friends then go dutch treat.

if she asked and you REALLY like her, then you offer to pay. i'm a woman and i usually at least offer to pay unless i do the inviting and then i will pay. if you asked and she offers...decline her offer, but score points for her! I think the first few dates the man should pay for the meal. Its just mannerable and makes a woman feel really special to have a man want to pay for the bill. Again, like some have said it also depends on who asks who to go for dinner. My boyfriend mainly pays for our dinner or breakfast or whatever and i pay sometimes. You will also notice that its mainly the man that pays for most things no matter how long yous have been dating for. Anyway, that how my relationship works.



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