Kitty said: Yes.I need alot of help with my 3 yrs old son. He just does what he wants. he destro-I try seach this on internet but no results found.Maybe this is a stupid question.
Mike said: oh,no,you are wrong.I have found as below for this question(I need alot of help with my 3 yrs old son. He just does what he wants. he destro),it will help you,my kids.
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you need to set very specific limits with consistant punishments that your son does not like, ie time out loss of toys etc.. find a time out space that is used for nothing else ie a small carpet or chair. it will be his will against yours. it takes a long time sometimes but it works.
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You can to watch that TV Show call "Nanny"
is very good and u'll learn a lot too...
firstly it comes down to discipline secondly it could be diet related
certain preservitives in breads, cordials, sweetened products send some children hyperactive.
id get him tested for allergies and if that isnt it u need to show him who the boss is, you
children will only push as far as u let them
Source(s):
mother of five boys
Sounds like you may need a doctor to have a look, dont wait to long. try playing a game with him or have him help you do things around the house, something that will take his mind off being destructive.
That's natural. I also felt that feeling of rebellion when i was a teenager. And it will be helpful if you would just go with the flow and just let it pass. youre child only does it cuz you let them get away with it when you see youre child doing wrong get up and do something do wait till youre done watching dr.phil or eatting youre lunch get up and do something now i know they say dont pick at the little things but if you dont then they think they can get by with the stuff and it just gets bigger and bigger.
Get the ol belt out ! There can be many many causes of things like this. My son used to be pretty bad, but it was because I worked 60 hours a week and his daddy worked a lot too. He was raised in daycare, without constant guidance. My husband and I lived for ourselves, which is wrong.
I became a Christian and realized that I was being foolish in the way my life was. It was a long, hard, journey, but now, two years later, my little boy's behavior is fantastic. I had to change the way I was before I could ever expect him to change the way he was.
You can IM me if I can be of any assistance to you.
Mel
Children don't come with manuals so start reading there's a LOT out there to help.
I typed Piaget's developmental theories
into Yahoo search this explains what the child can think/do and approximately when
follow the link to learn more
Stages of Cognitive Development
Stage Characterised by
Sensori-motor
(Birth-2 yrs) Differentiates self from objects
Recognises self as agent of action and begins to act intentionally: e.g. pulls a string to set mobile in motion or shakes a rattle to make a noise
Achieves object permanence: realises that things continue to exist even when no longer present to the sense (pace Bishop Berkeley)
Pre-operational
(2-7 years) Learns to use language and to represent objects by images and words
Thinking is still egocentric: has difficulty taking the viewpoint of others
Classifies objects by a single feature: e.g. groups together all the red blocks regardless of shape or all the square blocks regardless of colour
Concrete operational
(7-11 years) Can think logically about objects and events
Achieves conservation of number (age 6), mass (age 7), and weight (age 9)
Classifies objects according to several features and can order them in series along a single dimension such as size.
Formal operational
(11 years and up) Can think logically about abstract propositions and test hypotheses systemtically
Becomes concerned with the hypothetical, the future, and ideological problems
Source(s):
http://www.learningandteaching.info/learning/piaget.htm
Since this is under "Food & Drink", I assume you're looking for recipes? They are hard to find, but if you Wiki or Google "Long Pork", you may find what you are looking for. Watch very carefully what you let him eat. I know there is controversy on the subject of sugar, etc, but it's not just sugar, it is other food additives like MSG that are in virtually every non-organic prepared food available.
Our daughter was an angel -- until she got a certain type of candy into her system, then watch out for the monster. We eventually saw the pattern and stopped allowing that particular candy.
Hope this helps.
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guyotgirl
http://www.andyskitchen.com
Discipline the little bastard Terrible twos continue...
Try catching his attention and diverting it into something positive, maybe build a sand castle or play in the sand. get matchbox cars or hot wheels and roll them to him?
old barney tapes work ( drove me insane) but they work lol
have you tried positive reinforcement? That sometimes works. Also, give him options. Take away stuff/priveliges if he misbehaves. Just don't relate any of this to FOODS! DON"T USE FOOD AS A REWARD OR PUNISHMENT!! That's how eating disorders start. Instead, take away tv, or give time outs. If that doesn't work, that means you're taking away stuff he doesn't care about. Missing his favorite tv show could be death to him. After punishment is over, be sure to clarify what the punishment was for, and reiterate that you still love him. Kids don't hold grudges. If they do, it's because that's what they were taught or simply weren't explained what they did wrong. keep him on a leash
kids Will always be kids but you have to nip it in the butt early before he grows out of hand i have three boys myself you just have to discipline him make him know that when you say something you mean you don't tell him to go to bed and then give him Cookie just so that he can go, so right now you have to make some major step which means that when his asked he has to do it, don't go begging him.
he needs to know that what mummy says goes and daddy too he has to support you cause sometimes they tend to go to dad for help, let dad know that they need to respect you both and not be afraid and that's your main goal to get him to respect you cause that's what you need from him now you don't want him to be afraid of you but to respect you as his mum
so little time out and a little spanking will not hurt but help
Have you asked yourself why?
Is he bored?
Does he want you to play,
do you work too hard and he doesn't see you,
Is there a parent missing?
and if you have covered all these, how about asking a professional.
it may not be anything to do with what you are doing little chap can't help it i have never met a three year old that goes out of it's way to be naughty.
Please remember he is only three i know you are thinking that way or you wouldn't have asked for help,
Good on you, there are people that can help
and your not on your own.
Good luck
take the log of wood and sek him It seems that he needs some more Discipline from his parents!. Take responsibility for your sons actions. You wouldnt want him taking control in public, and making a scene./ imbarassing you!
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